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Mark Starlin's avatar

I hope you find a good balance, Elle. I recently got burned out on writing thanks to overcommitment and deadline pressure with my newsletter (I learn the hard way.) I had to back off for my own well-being. I got rid of the deadlines, promising paid content, and paywalls. It is now a "patron" paid option (pay if you appreciate my writing.) My weekly humor and fiction newsletter is no problem, but my serials are on hiatus until I have a desire to write them again.

As far as work/lifestyle, Americans are too obsessed with career "success" and money. When they should instead focus on life success (family, friends, love, contentment, happiness, helping others.) Having "just enough" is a great concept. I was certainly no wealthy tech worker, but I can relate to Kevin's story in that I exchanged a good-paying airline job for a creative job teaching guitar, a job that has regular turnover and no benefits. I make far less money, but I am far happier. And I have time for the pursuit of passion projects.

I am not a fan of the "side hustle" idea. The best way to turn a passion into a job is to try to make money from it. It is easy to lose that passion when money is involved. It is tough tightrope walk. You have to still do some things for the joy of it or you lose all of the joy. It becomes work. I believe hobbies are beneficial to our well-being. We don't have to make money at everything we do.

Another excellent interview. Thanks.

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T Van Santāna's avatar

Elle, it sounds like you and I process stress in a very similar way.

Kevin, thank you for sharing your experience. I'm a queer trans dad, so it's, you know, got it's own thing :D I'm glad you're advocating for leaving the mainstream grind for a life of real experience. We all need more of that!

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